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--  5 POWERFUL BUYING STRATEGIES  --

--  9 DEADLY MISTAKES HOME SELLERS MAKE  --

--  14 QUESTIONS TO ASK A REALTOR --

--  HOW TO GET TOP DOLLAR IN ANY MARKET --

-- MAKING THE MOVE EASY ON THE KIDS --

--  6 WAYS TO BEAT THE STRESS OF HOME BUYING --

--  DIFFERENT REASONS TO OWN A HOME  --

-- THINGS YOU SHOULD KNOW ABOUT MOVING  --

--  WHEN SELLING A HOME  --


 

5 POWERFUL BUYING STRATEGIES

 

* Don't Get "Pre-Qualified! 

Do you want to get the best house you can for the least amount of
money
? Then make sure you are in the strongest negotiating position
possible
. Price is only one bargaining chip in the negotiations, and
not
necessarily the most important one. Often other terms, such as the
strength
of the buyer or the length of escrow, are critical to a
seller
. In years past, I always recommended that buyers get "pre-
qualified
" by a lender. This means that you spend a few minutes on
the
phone with a lender who asks you a few questions. Based on the
answers
, the lender pronounces you "pre-qualified" and issues a
certificate
that you can show to a seller. Sellers are aware that
such
certificates are WORTHLESS, and here's why! None of the
information
has been verified! Oftentimes-unknown problems surface!
Some of the problems I've seen include recorded judgments, child

support
payments due, glitches on the credit report due to any number
of
reasons both accurately and inaccurately, down payments that have
not
been in the clients' bank account long enough, etc. So the way to
make
a strong offer today is to get "pre-approved". This happens AFTER
all
information has been checked and verified. You are actually
APPROVED for the loan and the only loose end is the appraisal on the

property
. This process takes anywhere from a few days to a few weeks
depending
on your situation. It's VERY POWERFUL and a weapon I
recommend
all my clients have in their negotiating arsenal.

 

* Sell First, Then Buy 

If you have a house to sell, sell it before selecting a house to buy!
I haven't seen a contingent sale work in the last 3 years, unless it's

with
a new home builder who has other houses to sell and can afford to
put
one on a contingency. Let's pretend that we go out looking for
the
perfect house for you. We find it and you love it! Now you have to
go
make an offer to the seller. You want the seller to reduce the
price
and wait until you sell your house. The seller figures that's a
risky
deal, since he might pass up a buyer who DOESN'T have to sell a
house
while he's waiting for you. So he says OK, he'll do the
contingency
but it has to be a full price offer! So you see, you paid
more
for the house than you could have because of the contingency.
Now you have to sell your existing house, and in a hurry! Otherwise

you
lose the dream house! So to sell quickly you might take an offer
that's
lower than if you had more time. The bottom line is that buying
before
selling might cost you TENS OF THOUSANDS of dollars. I always
recommend
that you sell first, then buy. If you're concerned that
there
is not a house on the market for you, then go on a window-
shopping
trip. You can identify possible houses and locations without
falling
in love with a specific house. If you feel confident after
that
then put your house on the market. Another tactic is to make the
sale
"subject to seller finding suitable housing". Adding this phrase
to
the listing means that WHEN YOU DO FIND A BUYER, you will have
some
time to find the new place. If you don't find anything to your liking,
you
don't have to sell your present home.

 

* Play the Game of Nines 

Before house hunting, make a list of nine things you want in the new
place
. Then make a list of the nine things you don't want. I call this
"NINE OF THIS AND NONE OF THAT".
You can use this list as a scorecard
to
rate each property that you see. The one with the biggest score
wins
! This helps avoid confusion and keeps things in perspective when
you're
comparing dozens of homes. When house hunting, keep in mind
the
difference between "SKIN AND BONES". The BONES are things that
cannot
be changed such as the location, view, size of lot, noise in
the
area, school district, and floor plan. The SKIN represents easily

changed surface finishes like carpet, wallpaper, color, and window
coverings
. Buy the house with good BONES, because the SKIN can always
be
changed to match your tastes. I always recommend that you imagine
each
house as if it were vacant. Consider each house on its underlying
merits
, not the seller's decorating skills.

 

* Don't Be Pushed Into Any House 

Your agent should show you everything available that meets your
requirements
. Don't make a decision on a house until you feel that
you've
seen enough to pick the best one. Go to the Multiple Listing
computer
with your agent to make sure that you are getting a COMPLETE
list
. In the late 1980's, homes were selling quickly, usually a few
days
after listing. In that kind of market, agents advised their
clients
to make an offer ON THE SPOT if they liked the house. That was
good
advice at the time. Today there isn't always this urgency,
unless
a home is drastically under priced, and you'll know if it is.
Don't forget to check into the SCHOOL DISTRICTS of the area you're

considering
. Information is available on every school; such as class
sizes
, % of students that go on to college, SAT scores, etc. You can
get
this information from your agent or directly from the school.

 

* Stop Calling Ads! 

A word of caution - agents create ads solely to make the phone ring!
Many of the homes have some drawback that's not mentioned in the ad,

such
as traffic noise, power lines, or litigation in the community.
What's not mentioned in the ad is usually more important than what is.
For this reason, I want you to be very careful when reading ads.
Remember that the person writing the ad is representing the seller and

not
you! The most important thing you can do is have someone on your
side
looking out for your best interests. Your own agent will critique
the
property with an eye towards how well it meets your needs and will
point
out any drawbacks you should know about. So whether you decide
to
work with me or not, pick an agent you feel comfortable with and
enlist
the services of that agent as a buyer's broker. Then you become
a
client with all the rights, benefits, and privileges created by this
agency
relationship, and you're no longer just a shopper. Did you
know
that many homes are sold WITHOUT A SIGN ever going up or an AD
EVER BEING PUT IN THE PAPER? These "great deals" go to those people

who
are committed to working with one agent. When an agent hears of a
great
buy, who do you think he's going to call? His client, who he has
a
legal obligation to work hard for you, or someone who just called on
the
phone and said "keep your eyes open"? So to get the best buy on a
property
, I always recommend that you hire your own agent and stick with him.

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9 DEADLY MISTAKES HOME SELLERS MAKE

 

Mistake #1. Using a real estate agent instead of a Realtor 

When you're looking for help buying or selling property, it's
important
to remember that the terms "real estate agent" and "Realtor"
are
not synonymous. Realtors can provide an extra level of service and
to
be a Realtor you must be a member of the National Association of
Realtors (NAR).
The equivalent organization in Canada is the Canadian
Real Estate Association (CREA).
Both are non-profit trade
organizations
that promote real estate information, education and
professional
standards. The National Association of Realtors also has
earned
a strong reputation for actively championing private property
rights
and working to make home ownership affordable and accessible.

The NAR and CREA members adhere to a strict code of ethics founded on

the
principle of providing fair and honest service to all consumers.

Realtor business practices are monitored at local board levels.
Arbitration and disciplinary systems are in place to address

complaints
from the public or board members. This local oversight
keeps
Realtors directly accountable to the individual consumers they
serve
and therefore the consumer is more likely to find better service
and
accountability by using a Realtor.
 

Mistake #2. Complacent marketing when selling a home 

When selling your home there are no guarantees that the ultimate buyer
of
your home will have simply walked through the front door. In many
cases
you may have to bring your home to the buyer. Effective
marketing
will help ensure that your property receives maximum
exposure
to attract a ready, willing and able buyer in the shortest
period
of time. Ask your Realtor to list for you all of the ways
he/she
intends to market your home and on what time-line. Also, be
sure
to ask about the home being advertised on the Internet.
 

Mistake #3. Taking for granted the "curb appeal" of your home 

When you're preparing your house for sale, remember the importance offirst impressions.
 A buyer's first impression can make or break

whether
they even want to go inside for a look. It is estimated that
more
than half of all houses are sold before the buyers even get out
of
their cars. With that in mind, be sure to stand outside of your
home
and take a realistic "fresh look" and then ask yourself what can
be
done to make the "curb appeal" improve. Also ask your Realtor's
opinion
as to how to improve the curb appeal. It could make a huge
difference
in your final sales price.
 

Mistake #4. Forgetting about health and safety issues 

Be upfront and disclose to your Realtor any problems with the
property
. The problems are going to be discovered anyway. A decade
ago
, health and safety issues were rarely a part of the typical real
estate
transaction. Today, however, it's common for inspections
relating
to health, safety, and even environmental concerns to be a
part
of most sales contracts. Moreover, in many states, the seller
must
disclosure to the buyer any knowledge of existing property
problems
. In many cases, these issues have been or can be factored
into
the home's listing price.
 

 

Mistake #5. Forgetting what you would want to see if you were the
buyer
of your home
 

Remember that although people can be different in personality, they
tend
to be the same when it comes to expectations at someone else's
expense
. In other words, a prospective buyer would probably like to
see
a perfect home from top to bottom, inside and out, when it comes
to
your home. Try to do as many of the following items as possible to
improve
the likelihood of your home sale in an expedient way.
 

 

 On the outside

 1) Sweep front walkway.

 2) Remove newspapers, bikes and toys.

 3) Park extra cars away from the property.

 4) Trim back the shrubs.

 5) Apply fresh, clean paint throughout.

 6) Clean windows and window coverings throughout.

 7) Keep plumbing and all appliances in working order.

 8) Maintain all sealant (window, tub, shower, sink, etc.) in good

 condition.

 9) Make sure roof and gutters are clean and in good condition.

 10) Mow the lawn frequently and plant flowers.

 11) Keep pet areas clean.

 

 

 On the inside

 1) The kitchen and bathroom should shine.

 2) Quick once-over with the vacuum; carpets should be clean.

 3) Place fresh flowers in the main rooms.

 4) Put dishes away, unless setting a formal display for decoration.

 5) Make all beds and put all clothes away.

 6) Open the drapes and turn on lights for a brighter feel.

 7) Straighten closets.

 8) Put toys away.

 9) Turn off television.

 10) Play soft music on the radio/stereo.

 11) Keep pets out of the way and pet areas clean and odor-free.

 12) Secure jewelry, cash, prescription medication and other valuables.

 13) Enhance the spaciousness of each room.

 

Mistake #6. Thinking you need to be in the home to explain things to a
prospective
buyer
 

You will be better served if you allow your Realtor to do their job
without
you there. Most potential buyers usually feel more comfortable
if
they can speak freely to the real estate professional without the
owners
being present. If people unaccompanied by an agent request to
see
your property, you should refer them to your real estate
professional
for an appointment.
 

Mistake #7. Not knowing how to price your home to sell 

Perhaps the most challenging aspect of selling a home is listing it at
the
correct price. It's one of several areas where the assistance of a
skilled
real estate agent can more than pay for itself. Listing the
home
too high can be as bad as too low. If the listing price is too
high
, you'll miss out on a percentage of buyers looking in the price
range
where your home should be. This is the flaw in thinking that
you'll
always have the opportunity to accept a lower offer. Chances
are
the offers won't even come in, because the buyers who would be
most
interested in your home have been scared off by the price and
aren't
even taking the time to look. By the time the price is
corrected
, you've already lost exposure to a large group of potential
buyers
. The listing price becomes even trickier to set when prices are
quickly
rising or falling. It's critical to be aware of where and how
fast
the market is moving - both when setting the price and when
negotiating
an offer. Again, an experienced, well-trained agent is
always
in touch with market trends - often even to a greater extent
than
appraisers, who typically focus on what a property is worth if
sold
as-is, right now.
 

Mistake #8. Not planning your move earlier enough 

Many sellers simply don't plan their move early enough and then feel
totally
overwhelmed at the time of moving out of the house. If you are
able
to move at any time of the year, don't wait until summer, the
peak-moving
season. Consider also that the first and last few days of
the
month are extra busy. If you plan to sell your house, get it on
the
market as soon as possible. Keep a record of all expenses related
to
the move, some of which may be tax deductible. Fill out the

Personal Household Inventory for each room. This is important for

establishing
the amount of declared valuation for the shipment and as
a
permanent inventory for insurance purposes. List, as nearly as
possible
, the year of purchase and original cost of each item. Attach
any
invoices or records of purchase to the completed inventory.

Prepare a separate high-value inventory if the shipment will contain

articles
of "extraordinary" value. The following list includes items
that
might fall into this category:
 

* Antiques

* Art Collections

* Cameras

* China Collections

* Computer Equipment

* Crystal

* Figurines

* Firearms

* Jewelry

* Manuscripts

* Oriental Rugs

* Silver

* Stones Or Gems

* Tapestries

* TVs Or Stereos 

Also, unless you have been given a binding moving estimate where a
firm
cost is established in advance, the exact cost of a move cannot
be
determined until after the shipment has been loaded on the van and
weighed
. The weight on which charges are based is calculated by
weighing
the van before and after loading. The total cost of the move
will
include transportation charges, any charges for declared
valuation
, plus charges for any extra services performed at your
request
. All of these charges are based on tariff rate schedules.
 

Mistake #9. Using a "convenient" Realtor rather than using an
experienced
Realtor

 When working with a real estate agent, it's critical that you have
full
confidence in that agent's experience and education. A skilled,
knowledgeable
agent should be able to explain to you exactly why your
home
needs to be priced at a certain level - compared to recent
listings
and sales of homes similar to yours. Experienced agents also
know
exactly what the current pool of buyers are looking for in
relation
to particular styles and price ranges of properties. A
skilled
agent can recommend changes that will enhance the salability
of
your home, thus increasing the price - and/or decreasing the length
of
time before a sale.

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14 QUESTIONS TO ASK A REALTOR 

 

* What is your guarantee? 

* Do you personally answer all phone calls on the property? 

* Can we cancel the listing if we're not happy? 

* Do you have a personal assistant? 

* If you don't call me back within 24 hours will you take $50 off the escrow? 

* May I see your personal Internet web site? 

* What systems do you have in place that will keep you in constant contact with me during the listing and the transaction? 

* Are you fully automated with your own personal computer, FAX machine, copier, pager, voice mail, etc.? 

* What is your average market time vs. other agents' average market time? 

* What professional designations do you have? 

* I want to give my home the advantage of the latest marketing strategies. How much time & money do you invest each month in professional training? 

* Can you give me a list of your clients who have closed escrow and can I call them? 

* Why are you personally motivated to sell my house? 

* Why should I list with you rather than any other agent who is calling?

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HOW TO GET TOP DOLLAR IN ANY MARKET

 

The best chance for selling your property is within the first seven weeks. Studies show that the longer a property stays on the market, the less the seller will net. Below are 5 main factors to accomplishing this goal. 

 

* Pricing Factor 

It is very important to price your property at a competitive market value right when you list it. The market is so competitive that even over-pricing by a few thousand dollars could mean that your house will not sell. It's interesting, but your first offer is usually your best
offer
. Here are reasons for pricing your property at the market value right from the start in order to net you the most amount of money in the shortest amount of time. An overpriced home:
 

* Minimizes offers

* Lowers showings

* Lowers agent response

* Limits financing

* Limits qualified buyers

* Nets less for the seller 

80% of the marketing is done when we decide on what price to list your home. If you are unwilling to list at current market value, you would be better off not putting it on the market at this time. 

* Clean Factor 

Most people are turned off by even the smallest amount of uncleanness or odor when buying a home. Sellers lose thousands of dollars because they do not adequately clean. If your house is squeaky clean, you will be able to sell your home faster and net hundreds, if not thousands of dollars more. If you are planning on moving, why not get rid of that old junk now so that your house will appear larger? Make more space. Odors must be eliminated especially if you have dogs, cats, or young children in diapers or if you are a smoker. You may not notice the
smell
, but the buyers do! Most agents have a difficult time communicating to their sellers about odor. If you employ an agent to get the most amount of money for you, please don't take offense if he must confront you about odor problems.
 

* Access Factor 

Top selling agents will not show your home if both the Key and access are not readily available. They do not have time to run around town all day picking up and dropping off keys. They want to sell homes! The greatest way to show a house is to have a key! When your home is being shown, please do the following: 

* Keep all lights on

* Keep all drapes and shutters open

* Keep all doors unlocked

* Leave soft music playing

* Take a short walk with your children and pets

* Let the buyer be at ease and let the agents do their job 

* Paint & Carpet Factor 

Paint is your best improvement investment for getting a greater return on your money. Paint makes the whole house smell clean and neat. If your house has chipped paint, exposed wood, or the paint looks faded, it is time to paint. If your carpet is worn, dirty, outdated, or an unusual color, you may need to seriously consider replacing it. Many houses do not sell because of this problem. Don't think that buyers have more money than you have to replace carpet. They don't. They simply buy elsewhere.  

* Front Yard Factor 

Your front yard immediately reflects the inside condition of your house to the buyer. People enjoy their yards. Make certain that the trees are trimmed so the house can be seen from the street. Have the grass mowed, trimmed and edged. Walkways should be swept. Debris
cleared
away. Remove parked cars. This all adds to curb appeal. If a buyer doesn't like the outside, they may not stop to see the inside.

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MAKING THE MOVE EASY ON THE KIDS

 

Moving from one house to another is seldom easy or fun for adults and it can be especially troubling for children. If parents deal with their children's concerns and needs thoughtfully, much of that distress and discomfort can be avoided.  

Children see moves differently than their parent's do, and they benefit much less from the change in their comfortable routines, or so it seems at the time. Most often, a change in houses or communities heralds an important step forward for the adult members of the family. The family moves because Daddy or Mommy has a great new job or a promotion in reward for years of hard work. They move because financial success has allowed the purchase of a bigger and nicer house in a more costly neighborhood. They move because they can finally afford private bedrooms for each child and perhaps a pool in the back yard. In the 1990's, mobile
and hard striving people typically live
in a house for about four years and then move on as their careers or fortunes allow. That short time span is only a small percentage of the life-to-date for a 30 or 40 year old, but the same four years is half the life-time of an 8 year old, and it includes almost all the years he or she can remember. To a parent, this house may be only the place they have lived recently. They think of it as a weigh station on the road of life. To kids, however, it may be the only home they have ever really known. This is their house, the place they feel safe and comfortable and thoroughly at home with. A house is much more than a roof and walls to a child. It is the center of his or her world. A move threatens to take that sphere away and leave something totally strange in its place. The familiar friends, schools, shops and theaters, the streets, trees and parks - all will no longer exist for them. Everything soon will be strange, and they will live in someone else's world. 

The impact of a move on a typical child starts about the time he or she first hears that Daddy has accepted a promotion, and often continues for about a year, until the new house becomes home and memories of the previous place fade. It's not usually necessary to announce this big change to children immediately, although they must hear about it from you before someone else breaks the news. Most teenagers see themselves as adult members of the family, and will probably feel they have been left out if they don't hear everything from the first day. But it is probably not a good idea to tell toddlers and preschoolers until they have to know. There is no point in making them worry far in advance. Be sure to announce the move in a totally positive way. You might say how proud you are that Daddy's company has chosen him out of many other employees to manage a new office in Cleveland. Talk about what a beautiful city Cleveland is how good the schools are and how nice the people are. Tell truthful but very positive stories about how nice the new house will be. Ask them what the favorite things are in their lives now, and then try to make them happen in the new home. If the new home is too far away to allow a visit by the entire family after it has been selected, show the children pictures of it from every angle. Videotape it, if you can. Emphasize the positive views and be sure to include pictures of each child's new room. Try to name the house with some romantic description like "Oak Hill" for the big trees and the sloping lawn. 

Sugar coating will help, but since children can quickly see the negative sides of most situations, every parent must plan to deal with their children's worries, fears and sorrows. The children will lose friends they may have known all their lives. They will leave behind their sports teams, their clubs and they're dancing teachers. They will have to start over in a new place, making friends, becoming accepted and fitting into different groups. Younger children need protection from fear of the unknown. Listen carefully to their concerns, and respond quickly to allay their apprehensions. It would be normal, for instance, for a young child to worry that his or her toy box and shelf of stuffed animals might be left behind. Find those anxieties and correct them. Probably the best tactic is to get the children actively involved in the whole process. Don't just promise to let them decorate their own rooms, for example. Take them to the paint store and let them bring home color swatches. Shop for bed spreads and towels and carpets. They must leave old friends behind, so find ways to make that parting almost pleasant. Plan a going-away party and let them invite their own guests. Take pictures of everyone and make a photo album. If a child is old enough, send him or her out with a roll of film in the camera and the assignment to photograph the views they will want to remember. Some relationships will be extremely difficult to break and these will demand careful, thoughtful, personalized planning by both parents. How, for instance, do you move a 17-year-old 1,000 miles from her steady boyfriend? 

Expect that your children may be even more distressed after the move than they were before it. The new house will not be beautiful the night after the moving van leaves, or for months after. The furniture won't fit the rooms. The curtains won't be up, and every spot on the floor will be covered with half-unpacked cartons. The children won't know anyone at school and, if you move during the summer, they may have little opportunity to meet anyone their age. You may be faced with many more problems in your new community than they will, but remember that you can handle them more easily than they can. They will need your help, and you should plan to give them the support they need. After the move, give each of them a long distance telephone call allowance so they can keep in touch with the people back home who matter the most to them. Buy a stack of picture postcards that show positive views of your new community, and encourage them to write good news messages to the friends and relatives they left behind. To make new friends, make sure the children don't vegetate in front of the television. Get them outside, where neighbors pass by. Have them pass out fliers to do baby-sitting or car washing. Encourage them to participate in as many school activities as they can handle. Get them on sports teams and into clubs. 

If they - and you - aren't making new friends fast enough, throw a housewarming party for yourselves and invite all the adults and children on the block. If serious emotional or attitudinal problems arise, however, help is usually available and probably should be sought. Ask a teacher for help. Consider professional counseling. Don't let a serious problem slide. Remember that the newness will wear off. New friends will become old friends and best friends. This new house may become the family homestead your grandchildren will visit every holiday season. There will be discomforts, but in the long run, everything will work out fine.

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SIX WAYS TO BEAT THE STRESS OF BUYING A HOME

 

DEATH, DIVORCE & MOVING are the three most stressful experiences in life. There are two very different kinds of needs that people have while moving. First there are the transactional needs, like finding the home that is just right for you, finding a seller who is realistic, negotiating the price, filling out the paperwork, handling the escrow, and arranging for the move. But there are also emotional needs that are involved when moving, and this is where the biggest stress comes in. Any competent agent will handle the transactional needs for you, but if your emotional needs are unfulfilled, you'll be frustrated and may not act in your own best interests. The ideal real estate agent is one who is competent with paperwork and numbers, but can also guide, direct, and counsel you through the emotional ups and downs of moving. Here are the six best ways we've found to beat the stress. 

1. Begin with the end in mind. Have an ultimate scenario of where you're trying to be. What will  life be like when you get there? How will it be better than where you are now? Dwell on that picture and write it out, fill up at least a page about how it feels in the new place. This is imperative. Having the goal in front of you at all times energizes you to achieve it, in spite of setbacks and frustrations. Emotions will run high and you need an anchor. In childbirth, the Lamaze method teaches you to focus on one spot when enduring labor pains. In the same way, you too must focus on that future goal when anxiety threatens to get the better of you. 

2. Be flexible. In your monetary calculations, overestimate by a thousand dollars. In this market, anything can happen between contract acceptance and closing. It could be the inspections reveal areas of concern that the seller is unwilling to fix or the repair costs are higher than the amount limited in the contract. Or the interest rate changes which affects the necessary down payment and closing costs you will need to come up with. As your real estate team, we will strive to tie up loose ends as quickly as possible, but remember there is no perfect world. Most buyers feel a bit overwhelmed when taking on a new mortgage and the responsibilities of a new home and we've seen many buyers get angry when it seems like the cost just keeps going up. Anger is caused when reality doesn't match up with the expectations you had in your mind. So if you anticipate this happening in advance, you won't get angry. In fact, it'll probably go better than you expected

3. Trust in the process. There's just so much to do, it's easy to panic. You wonder if it will ever work out. In fact, when we bought our house, we couldn't eat for a day, we felt sick to our stomachs! You think you're taking a big chance, but the truth is you're giving yourself a big chance. Even though you can't see every step of the way, as you move towards your goals, the way opens up. We know that you haven't moved in a long time and it's a major upheaval in your life. But we've been there many times before, and we'll be looking out for you. Trust that we know the way to get you there. 

4. Get knowledge. One thing you'll probably feel during this transition time is being out of control. It feels like everyone else has taken over your life. The seller, your lender, the appraiser, the inspectors, they all have the power to say yes or no to your moving plans. We'll try our best to let you know ahead of time what your expenses will be, and what the unknowns are. We'll tie down the loose ends as soon as possible. We'll try to get your loan approved within a reasonable time frame. We'll educate you as best we can and let you in "behind the scenes" so you won't ever feel stupid or out of control

5. What is your option? When things don't go as smoothly as you had hoped, don't let emotions take over. Always ask yourself "What is my option?" because there are always options. Let's pretend the lender takes longer than agreed upon to get your loan. He keeps asking you for more and more documentation until if feels like he also needs to know how many gold fillings you have in your mouth! You'll feel upset because you wanted to feel certain about the move and now you still have to live with the uncertainty. You want to say "Forget it, I'm fed up with this!" But what is your option? Find a new lender and start the process over again? That may take weeks, plus you will have to provide all the paperwork over again. If the lender is trying his best, it may be better to give him a few more days. Each case is unique, but when setbacks occur we've found that asking yourself this question helps to defuse the situation and restore clear headed thinking

6. Seek entertainment. When there's nothing you can do about the situation, take your mind off of it altogether. Maybe you expected loan approval on Friday, but now it won't come until Monday. You hate being in limbo and feeling powerless. So do something else entirely, maybe something where you aren't powerless. Take a hike, play tennis, get out of town for the day. Watch a movie or pour yourself into your work. Whatever diversion works best for you, now would be a good time to engage in it. Just forget the situation and refuse to listen to those irritating thoughts when they come into your head. Think about something else instead and just take it one day at a time. To keep stress to a minimum, here's how I'll serve you when you work with me in buying your new home: Give my best-reasoned expert counsel and advice with your best interests in mind. Clarify your goals and motivation, and decide if moving is the wisest choice at this time. Provide recommendations and information to help your kids through all the changes. Negotiate effectively for you to get the lowest possible price for your new home. Treat your money like it was my own, saving every expense possible. Protect your interests during escrow, keeping a detailed record of the transaction. Be your levelheaded sounding board or relief valve when the stress is overwhelming. Counsel you through the feelings of "buyer's remorse". Alert you ahead of time to every possibility so you feel more in control. Contact you daily during the last 10 days of the transaction to serve your needs. Provide guidance and help with movers, change of address, utilities shut off, cleaning, etc. Deliver your closing paperwork. Continue to give you information of value after the transaction... for life.

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SOME DIFFERENT REASONS TO OWN A HOME

  

You've probably seen lots of financial arguments about why you should own your own home rather than rent. This includes budgeting (no rent increases) and the tax savings you'll most likely have. Now I'm going to give you some reasons you probably haven't heard. 

Freedom to pursue other goals in life once the major goal of home ownership is achieved. 

Strange as it sounds, many of my first-time buyers have told me that once they bought the house, other things in their life started to fall into place. It's as if not owning took so much of their mental energy that other goals were not worked on until that big goal was reached. So buy a home and get on with your life! 

A greater sense of belonging to the community 

Once you own a home, you feel more attached to the city in which you live. You're more interested in what happens in town, to the roads, schools, and shopping areas. Some people even become involved in local politics, which you seldom see a renter do. 

A commitment to something, a sense of stability 

Home ownership is an anchor, something that cannot be pulled out from under you. You'll never get a notice that you have to move. You're kids will never have to change schools. It gives you freedom to plan years ahead.

You can change things, a feeling of being in control 

It's your home. You can add to it, remodel it, change the landscaping, do whatever projects you want. You have a feeling of being in control of something in your life. At work we don't always have control of what happens, but your home is your castle that you have dominion over. You can see what you're building take shape before your eyes. 

More control over the children than in an apartment complex 

In a neighborhood, kids usually play in the yards or go to friend's houses a few doors away. My clients have told me that in an apartment complex they never knew where the kids were. They could be in any of hundreds of apartments, doing who knows what. In a home you get to know the neighbors and watch out for each other's kids.  

Children do better in school and feel more secure 

This one surprised me, but buyers have reported to me that their kids calmed down in school after they bought a house. I don't know why, but it seems to work that way. I remember a single mom watching her son play in the yard, making steps in the slope and building things. She didn't have to tell him to leave everything alone, like she did at the apartment complex. I guess kids feel the same need for control we adults do. 

Time and money saved by not going to the Laundromat 

A small point, but if you have kids, you know the value of this one. You gain a whole evening a week when you buy a house! The wash gets done in between other things, or while you're at work. What would you do with the extra evening you'll have? How about going out for dessert with your spouse with all those quarters?